Tor’s Law [tors lor]
Tor’s Law is a career/mindset coaching service offering support in a variety of ways, including 1:1 and group sessions, talks and more. The support is available for senior and junior lawyers alike (ie. all types and all levels), but you don’t even need to be a lawyer, or have anything to do with law to get involved and benefit.
The down to earth coaching approach aims to assist you by unlocking your potential and helping you to overcome challenges, to be the best you can be. Wherever you want to get to (and wherever you are at the moment) – I can try to help you get there.
Tor’s Law is NOT a law firm. Law is simply my background. I’m a Commercial Dispute Resolution Lawyer and have been working in the legal industry (in the City of London) for over a decade.
I absolutely love helping people, hence why I became a Lawyer and Coach in the first place and I’d love to help you to be happier too!
Please reach out and connect, to start your first step of the journey. I would love to hear from you.
Lotsa Law Love
After applying for pupillage for many years with no success, I joined the Tor’s Law Coaching Program and within my first few sessions, I secured pupillage! The three-month Coaching Program transformed my mindset and helped me to achieve my career goals. Tor has taught me that it is easy to get what you want. She leads by example and is a true inspiration. The Program is packed full of practical guidance and encouraging action steps. I now think differently and have a toolbox that I can go back to at any time. I have a new perspective on life - the powerful Program, full of positive energy, is life changing. I felt empowered after every session. I am in a great place- the best I have ever been. My career, mindset and happiness have fallen into place. I recommend this Coaching Program to everyone, at any stage of their career, lawyer or not – anyone can benefit from the incredible coaching on offer. It is an investment in yourself which will reap invaluable results. Thank you Tor’s Law!
Tor, you are the most influential person in my year – without a doubt. You are an absolute inspiration. I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart and soul for all you have taught me and enhanced in my life, heart and mind. Your brave heartedness, your bouncy love, sparkles and smiles. I’m blessed to know you. You have broadened my horizons and helped me work through pain. You have unleashed my power with your energy, our connection and the care you have. You have a way of being gentle and mesmerizing. You liberate. The sessions are amazing. This Coaching is an absolute gift. Thank you so much!
I think deciding to have coaching is the first step to acknowledging you want to create positive change in your life. Tor’s coaching is positivity all the way, from the beautiful smile that greets you at the start of your session to the ‘happiness sprinkles’ sign off on all her messages.
It can be quite hard to acknowledge we want things to change and especially that we might need some outside assistance to achieve that change. It takes courage to admit things are not how you want them to be and it can make you feel very vulnerable openly admitting that, to yourself and, even more so, to somebody else. Tor is the perfect person to admit it to, because she is so non judgmental, so supportive and she listens. She doesn’t just hear you, she listens and she gets it. Tor has really good techniques for helping you to work out what it is you want to change, how you change it and what you are going to do about it going forwards. What makes the coaching so valuable and so believable, is that it is all delivered with real care from a place of total commitment to you and deep innate integrity on Tor’s part. And it works. She has helped me and she can help you. Tor always says she loves helping people, you can feel that in her sessions, it’s palpable. Keep delivering those happiness sprinkles Tor, we all need those.
Tor takes a genuine interest in helping others achieve their goals. I found her 3 month group program to be well structured and offered lots of useful tips to help think about, and work towards, goals. Tor has such a positive personality and delivers each session with a friendly and enthusiastic approach.
Tor was really relatable and easy to open up to. She guided me in directions where it made me think of things more positively rather than negatively. Most recommended Coaching Program of the year!!!!!
I have gained confidence, experience and courage. I would whole-heartedly recommend Tor’s Law to all, as it has positively changed my life. I am grateful to Tor for having provided me with so much inspiration.
My aim was to be able to negotiate better. I have learned to speak up for myself and it has given me the ability to discuss various subjects at work that I never thought was possible. Tor provides continuous help with work and non-work matters, whenever I need it. Thank you so much!
Tor’s three month group coaching program gave me the support and space needed to reflect on my goals and to feel confident in starting to put things in place to move forwards with these. Tor has a very motivational and encouraging approach and the program was well tailored to the needs of the group. A really enjoyable and insightful program which I found of benefit to various aspects of wellbeing.
The Coaching Program is open to everyone who wants to make a change to their working lives, but hasn’t been able to do this on their own. The tools and techniques I use are universal and so you DO NOT need to be a lawyer to get involved. Although, having worked in the legal industry for many years, my experience is likely to benefit Lawyers of all levels. Solicitors, Barristers, and non-lawyers (including those in Product Design, Psychology, Healthcare, Real Estate and more) have benefited from the Program too – so if you want to make a change, sign up today!
The Tor’s Law Coaching Programs are for you if you’re someone who:
- Has a fierce desire to learn and grow;
- Wants to be better than you are now;
- Wants to reach their potential sooner rather than later;
- Wants to make more money; and/or
- Is willing to invest in yourself to create the life you want to live.
The main difference is that with the One Day Intensive Coaching Program, the support and content is very front loaded and delivered all in one day, with some additional check-in support after the session. In comparison, the Three Month Coaching Program is our recommended Program and is spread over three months, meaning that we have more time to work together, on more materials, both in and out of the sessions. This is definitely the more popular Coaching Program.
Yes, I can fix them for you when you sign up, which offers more certainty. However, the Coaching Program is flexible and the sessions can be scheduled depending upon availability and how often you would like a session.
Yes, for the Individual Coaching Program, the cost can be spread over three equal monthly payments.
Yes. You can arrange this or we can speak with them for you. Please note that even if a third party (employer or otherwise) pays for your sessions, no information will be disclosed to them and all of the sessions remain confidential between Tor’s Law and you as Coachee.
|Structure||Ad hoc, informal.||Regular, formal, structured (and can be flexible), specifically focused on getting you to where you want to be.|
|Relationship||Holistic overview, advisory in nature.||An equal partnership, supportive and facilitative in nature, orientated towards promoting good decision making.|
|Experience||Usually someone within your industry that you aspire to follow in the footsteps of. Experienced in their field, so they can share their wisdom / guidance re their journey.||
[A Coach can be all that a Mentor is, PLUS]:There is no need for the Coach to have experienced what you want to achieve, it’s just that the Coach is specifically trained (unlike the Mentor) in various techniques to help you attain results.
|Tools||Not really used.||
Certified Coaches have often trained extensively in various methods, (to help you to achieve your objectives), including but not limited to:
|Outcome||Changes, and is fluid.||Specific and measurable.|
|Time||Medium / Long term.||Short / Medium term usually, (however some Coachees wish to work with Coaches longer term).|
|Price||Usually free (Volunteer Mentor).||Usually a paid for service (An investment in your self-development to work towards creating the life you want to live).|